Hey {{first_name | Love Luminary}},

Friday’s love energy is quiet, inward, and very human.

Tonight favors closeness over chemistry tests, comfort over grand plans, and honesty over fantasy.

Whether single or partnered, the question isn’t “How exciting are you?” but “Does this feel safe, mutual, and warm?”

In today’s issue:
⚔️ Horoscopes for all 12 signs (and a personalized horoscope for Insiders)
💘 Friday Flame: Are you the giver or the taker in love?

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This is the type of guidance Insiders received in their personal horoscope yesterday.

HOROSCOPES
Daily Horoscopes for January 16th

♈️ ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Colder weather turns your love life inward. Whether single or partnered, tonight favors warmth over doing something with a lot of effort. If you’re dating, suggest something low-pressure and indoors. If you’re coupled, cancel plans and make it a couch night without guilt. Right now desire needs comfort, shared silence, and feeling chosen even when nothing flashy is happening.

♉️ TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
This is peak “stay in and tend to what’s real” energy for you. Relationships thrive when you slow the pace and enjoy simple pleasures together. Cook something cozy, watch a familiar movie, or talk without multitasking. If you’re single, don’t make the mistake of using winter loneliness to connect with the wrong person. In the long run you need stability, not distraction.

♊️ GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
With the Moon squaring Neptune across your relationship axis early this morning, you need to stop overthinking what to do when it comes to love. If you’re single, resist romanticizing someone who hasn’t shown up for you in the long run. If you’re partnered, say what you need plainly instead of making hints. Tonight works best for honest conversation.

♋️ CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
You’re craving emotional closeness that feels safe and not intense. Tonight is about soft rituals like tea, blankets, shared meals, and quiet reassurance. If you’re single, it’s okay to admit you want companionship right now. Wanting connection isn’t weakness, it’s winter wisdom. If partnered, small acts of care will get you farther than a big grand gesture.

♌️ LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Romance today is quieter than you’re used to, but no less meaningful. This is not the night to put together a big production with perfect plans or curated vibes. If you’re dating, suggest a quiet night that lets personalities breathe. If you’re partnered, let yourselves be boring together. You’re still hot, even when you’re wearing your favorite sweatpants.

♍️ VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Love will improve when those boring logistics are handled. Clean the kitchen together, plan a meal, and decide what movie to watch without a big debate. If single, stop over-analyzing why things haven’t worked yet. Tonight is about creating a calm environment so the right connection can eventually grow.

♎️ LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
You want closeness, but only if it feels emotionally balanced. Tonight favors gentle affection and shared aesthetics: soft lighting, cozy music, and thoughtful gestures. If single, don’t chase someone just because the month feels lonely. Choose connection that feels mutual, because love should feel like a breeze, not a negotiation.

♏️ SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
The urge to merge is strong, but tonight asks for emotional honesty without your usual intensity. If you’re partnered, slow down and enjoy simple togetherness. If you’re single, notice whether you want something that feels good, or something that feels chaotic. Winter longing can blur that line, so remember that deep bonds don’t require drama to be real.

♐️ SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
With the Moon in your sign squaring Neptune early today, feelings may feel bigger than facts. If you’re single, resist falling for potential alone. If partnered, check assumptions before reacting. Tonight is better for warmth and reassurance than heavy talks. Cozy plans will ground you and remind you that love feels better when you’re in the moment and not in your head.

♑️ CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
You’re craving emotional return on investment. Tonight is ideal for low-key connection that doesn’t require effort. If partnered, protect downtime together. If single, notice whether you’re longing for partnership or simply rest. Both are valid, but they ask for different solutions. Stability starts by meeting your own needs first.

♒️ AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
Connection should be subtle today. Avoid intensity or expectations of anything super serious. If single, don’t turn a date into a therapy session or a life-planning summit. But also don’t hide behind jokes, flirting, or surface-level banter. Keep it light but keep it real. If partnered, you don’t need to define anything tonight. Just enjoy being human together.

♓️ PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
With the Moon squaring Neptune, your ruling planet, emotions may feel tender or foggy. Protect your heart tonight. If single, avoid idealizing someone unavailable. If partnered, skip emotional guessing games and ask directly for reassurance. Love feels safer when it’s spoken plainly.

FRIDAY FLAME
🔒 Are You the Giver or the Taker in Love?

And How the Capricorn New Moon Helps You Rebalance the Dynamic

Before reading on, answer this honestly.

💘 The Quick Quiz

When you’re in a relationship (or situationship), you usually:

A. Check in, initiate plans, smooth over tension, and make things easier for the other person.
B. Let the other person set the tone, reach out first, and do the emotional heavy lifting.

When something feels off, you tend to:

A. Try harder. Communicate more. Adjust yourself.
B. Pull back, go quiet, or assume it will resolve itself.

Your biggest fear in love is:

A. Being too much or asking for too much.
B. Being tied down, obligated, or expected to change.

Mostly A = You’re the Giver
Mostly B = You’re the Taker

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